Rudeness?

We went out for dinner tonight and on the way back I started laughing at the petrol station (not literally laughing AT the petrol station... we were laughing about this noise we heard and also at this number plate that said "MI LKK") and Natalie joined in quickly, it was injokes and silly things we were laughing at, you know, because thats the way we've always been. We also laughed at each other laughing and I was laughing about things that had happened today as well, (Oliver's green coat. xD WHERES HE GONE?!) and also when it gets to the stage of laughter that it got to, you just about laugh at absolutely everything.

And then mum goes "right stop it I've had enough" so we both try to calm down, Natalie I think found it a little easier. Then she snorted with laughter again, and I started laughing again, and then after we calmed down again after being told off again either one of us would start the other off again. We got home, mum and Craig obviously annoyed, we helped mum out of the car and got in. Craig drove off, while we went inside. She started having a go at us.

Apparently its rude. I can see why people think this, but at the same time, isn't it rude to interrupt someones fun? Its like being a bloody party pooper. I think the only reason she had a problem with it is because Craig was getting annoyed (because personally I think he thought we were laughing at him, which we weren't....) but thats stupid ... apparently its like two people whispering to each other. But then again, I wouldn't find this annoying/rude/upsetting unless I was on my own... I mean, its their business, I'll stay out of it. If they want to share the joke, thats fine too. xD

But it was like... we couldn't share the joke because either
a.) Craig and mum wouldn't find it funny
b.) They'd think we were even more stupid and just shout at us more (Craig wasn't saying much tbh, just looking at us in a pissed off way).

Argh. I despair 8D LOL there was this part where I saw a rainbow (I was still trying to contain my laughter) but I burst out laughing because I wanted to say there was a rainbow and it was quite serious compared to my laughing. And mum said "I despair" because we were laughing again, then I calmed down and said "there is a rainbow over there" and then following that "hey that rhymed" which made it all the more funnier... xD

Argh... I don't know. She's never gotten annoyed at that before, she takes herself way too seriously. I think the leg thing is just an excuse for her to be nasty (me and Nat had a good old light-hearted rant about it because we came back upstairs; we left mum to fester downstairs because we thought that if she was going to be nasty we didn't really want to share her company.)

Actually as well, I think that smoking in the car while other 'non-smokers' or even other company are in the car too. Its just... rude. I mean, he could ask, and well... what are you meant to say? If we said 'no you can't smoke' or 'no we don't want you to smoke please' then we'd either get told off or he'd be annoyed at us and it would spoil the rest of the evening (mainly Craig we're talking about here). But argh. Its just rude... its not even his car. I know mum might not mind it but me and Nat really do. Cigars are horrible things. They're like ultimate cancer branches (not sticks, way too thick for sticks xD).

So, well, y'know. And she was being rude to me while me and Nat were trying to calm down (her shouting at us just made it worse because we were trying to calm down but we set each other off again.) because there was something mentioned (someone had died who I knew had been ill but I didn't actually know they had died) and I went "Oh God did he die?" and she went "Yes but apparently you go round with your ears closed". Its like... well, no one even told me anyway... and even if it had been mentioned in passing then I might not have picked up on it totally if the conversation hadn't been properly about it, like they could have just said "oh he died" or something.

I just. D: She should learn to laugh more. I've been really trying to lighten everything up for everyone lately, with Natalie here its a lot easier, but school has been boring/shitty and at home its depressing with mum being a cripple and all... but no, she just has to be nasty about everything. I think she thinks that anything she doesn't find funny is 'stupid'. She always has to be right and its stupid if its anyone else's fun.

Seriously. Whats her problem? I definately regret when I was little all those times I wanted mum and dad back together xD and I definately fully understand why Dad left now. LMAO. She's not just a handful, she's a headful!

I might have more to say about this... dunno. xDDDDDDD *lols*